If you've been in our world — reading, engaging, showing up — and you feel the pull to go deeper, this is where you begin. We review every application personally. A real human being will read what you write.
Before You Apply
This is not a form to be optimized. There is no right answer we are looking for — only your honest one. The men who get the most from this work are the ones who arrived telling the truth about where they actually are.
Don't give us the polished version. Give us the real one.
What Happens After You Apply
That's completely fine. The best way to prepare is simply to show up. Start here:
Three questions. No right answers. Just yours.
Not your credentials. Not your resume. Who are you as a man? What do you bring to a room? What lights you up and what do other men come to you for? What are you good at — and what are you still figuring out?
Tell us about your journey. What have you faced, worked through, or transformed? This doesn't have to be formal — therapy, men's circles, lived experience, spiritual practice, hard seasons of life — all of it counts. We want to understand where you've been.
Not the polished answer. The real one. What is happening in your life right now that has you here? What are you looking for that you haven't found elsewhere? What made you stop scrolling and actually fill this out?
Thank you for showing up honestly. A real person will read your application and be in touch within 5–7 business days — either to schedule a conversation or to let you know where things stand.
In the meantime, the best thing you can do is exactly what you've been doing — show up.
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