RELATIONSHIP BOOST! Research Indicates Frequent Intimacy Leads to Happier Partners
Sexual intimacy isn’t just a physical act; it’s a vital component of emotional bonding and well-being. According to a study by Muise, Impett, and Desmarais (2013) in the Society for Personality and Social Psychology Bulletin, couples who describe themselves as content in their partnerships engage in sexual activities at least weekly, contributing to higher relational satisfaction and emotional closeness.
When examining heterosexual relationships, experts highlight that while motivations for sex may vary, the shared emotional connection during intimacy remains a consistent theme (Westchester Therapy Group, as cited in Elite Daily, 2018). This finding underscores how, regardless of individual motivations, emotional bonding plays a central role in fulfilling partnerships.
Interestingly, timing preferences for sexual activities appear to differ between genders. A study by Lovehoney, cited in Men’s Health (2021), found that men are generally more inclined towards morning intimacy, whereas women tend to prefer the late hours of the evening. Such differences may stem from variations in circadian rhythms and hormonal patterns that influence sexual drive.
Differences in preferred sexual positions also reveal contrasting experiences of pleasure and emotional connection. In a survey by Women’s Health (2020), women shared their least-favored sexual positions, often due to diminished pleasure, discomfort, or a notable lack of emotional intimacy. Among the least popular were positions like Doggy Style, Top Mount Position, Reverse Cowgirl, 69, and Missionary, highlighting how certain physical arrangements can influence emotional satisfaction during intimacy.
For all men seeking to deepen their relationships, it’s beneficial to be mindful of their partner’s preferences and prioritize connection, ensuring a fulfilling and emotionally rich sexual relationship.
References
- Muise, A., Impett, E. A., & Desmarais, S. (2013). “Getting it on versus getting it over with: Sexual motivation, desire, and satisfaction in intimate relationships.” Personality and Social Psychology Bulletin, 39(10), 1320–1332.
- Elite Daily. (2018). “What happens when you and your partner have different libidos?” Retrieved from Elite Daily
- Men’s Health. (2021). “Timing differences in sexual desire between men and women.” Retrieved from Men’s Health
- Women’s Health. (2020). “Survey: Women’s least favorite sex positions and why.” Retrieved from Women’s Health